“If You Are SERIOUS About
But Secretly Worry That The Sex You Are Having Now Is As Good As It’s EVER Going To Get, Then Read On...
If you have gone from wondering WHEN your sex life is going to improve to IF things will ever become more exciting between you and your lover, then I'd like to share a story with you about how I went from being a woman somewhat insecure about my sex skills (and not totally thrilled in the sack) to an orgasmic little sex kitten who rocks my man's world.
I used to be completely insecure not only with my own skills in bed but I was unable to really let go and allow myself to experience the type of toe curling ecstasy that I would only read about and watch in just about every movie out there.
I grew up feeling that there was a right way and a wrong way to have sex. But I didn’t know what that “right way” was. Sex was never discussed in my family. And it's not like I got some manual on how to be a sexual goddess.
My understanding was that as a woman, you were supposed to be the protector of your chastity. You know, be “the good one”. But then if you WERE in bed with someone, you were supposed to be sexy and hot and orgasmic. You were supposed to already know what to do.
But NO ONE ever told me HOW to do that.
So the idea of what sex for me was very confusing.
When I began to have sex with my boyfriend, I really didn’t know what I was doing. I was doing what I thought I was supposed to do... I had this idea in my head what the perfect sexual being was. And my insides weren’t matching the outsides of what I saw.
I thought something was wrong with me.
The WORST part was that I wasn’t getting these incredible mind-blowing orgasms that people talked about.
Sure it felt good, but I wasn’t having orgasms and I wasn’t even convinced that I was even supposed to.
I was still operating under this old “good girl” mentality that I wasn’t even supposed to really enjoy it.
Oh, sure, I PRETENDED to really enjoy it. But I never climaxed. That was for men, in my head… The worst part about it was I wasn’t even AWARE that’s what I believed…
I was also obsessed with my appearance and insecure about my performance.
If I didn’t feel skinny enough, or my boobs were too small or I felt somehow unattractive, not enough.
I enjoyed sex even less. So that would only motivate me more to become more technical…
If I could only find the perfect blowjob technique or move my hips the “right” way, or act like I was getting an orgasm, he’d be happier. Then I’d be happier.
As you can imagine, I wasn’t making any progress towards a happier sex life.
In fact, we got into a bit of a rut, doing the same things over and over and the affection, intimacy and variety started to fade away.
IT STARTED TO GET BORING.
Then one night I had a moment of clarity.
My boyfriend and I were having sex. He semed into it and I was just kind of going through the motions when it really hit me. I was so completely detached from the whole act. I wasn’t enjoying anything because I was so busy in my head, “acting like I was enjoying it” that I didn’t even care anymore.
He could have been with anyone in the world at that moment because he certainly wasn’t with me. Here we were, in what was supposed to be the most intimate act two people could share and I was a million miles away and he didn’t even know.
The worst part is that I realized that we had stopped having our “moment” after sex. You know that moment? Where we would either hold each other, or laugh or kiss. Just that perfect intimate moment that really brought it all together.
He was pulling away from me even if he didn’t realize it. But I did and it made me feel more alone than I had ever felt. After we finished I got up, locked myself in the bathroom and cried.
I finally got so sick and tired of settling for so-so sex. I thought to myself, “Is this really as good as it’s going to get? Do I want to spend the rest of my life like this?” And that’s when it really hit me.
I refused to live my life KNOWING that I wasn't really satisfied with my sex life and that I didn't know how to change it.
That’s when I set off to make some serious changes.
I realized that I didn’t really KNOW just what it was that turned me on in bed because I had never really tried to figure it out on my own! And if I didn't know what turned me on, I REALLY wasn't sure what turned my man on.
I began to ask myself the really hard questions:
I decided it was time to do a little exploring…
The Shocking Discovery
And I was SHOCKED at what I found out.
I wasn’t alone, not by a long shot!
I found out that A LOT of women thought the same exact things I did:
“Maybe something is wrong with me, that’s why I’m not happy.” Or
“I guess this is just the way it’s supposed to be, oh well.”
But we weren’t spending enough time looking at the real core issues.
Most of our issues regarding sex started and ended in our MINDS.
“Why Most Women FAIL
If you find that you are doing any of these three, you need to learn from your mistakes immediately so you can avoid these falls in the future and learn to do instead what will create an amazing sexual experience for you and your partner.
Mistake #1 - Letting your mind work against you in bed
Have you ever been in bed with your man, having sex and your mind starts to wander? You worry about work, or you’re still mad about something he said earlier today or you’re feeling kind of fat.
Suddenly, you’re trying really hard to try think about where you are and what you’re doing. You throw in a fantasy. You try to FOCUS on having an orgasm but it just makes things worse.
The window of opportunity has closed and you’re left frustrated again.
I’ve got news for you.
You are NOT alone.
What women need to know is that there are actually 2 G-SPOTS. There is one between her legs. We all know about that one.
But there is another one. A far more important one. And a very NEGLECTED ONE.
And that one is the one between her ears. That’s right, our minds. And our mind is by far the most crucial when it comes to sex.
Because if it’s not with us, it’s against us…
By trying to hard and thinking too much, we can hit a point where we know an orgasm is just never going to happen.
Did you know that Pfizer Pharmaceuticals cancelled its study for the female Viagra because, ''There's a disconnect in many women between genital changes and mental changes… This disconnect does not exist in men. Men consistently get erections in the presence of naked women and want to have sex. With women, things depend on a myriad of factors.''
Among those factors?
Willingness, the actual desire to have sex, even the way women feel about themselves.
It’s an embarrassing problem for so many women, but you don’t have to be one of them.
Mistake #2 – You don’t REALLY know how to rock his world with a great BJ.
Ever feel like you’re just winging it?
You’re looking at your man’s erection, wondering if you should just try use your mouth only or maybe your hand, but you’re not quite sure how or what combination.
Or maybe you’re in it for the long haul with him and you don’t know how to keep your mouth and throat relaxed or you just don’t know if he likes what you’re doing!
A lot of women ask themselves, how do I give a really great blowjob?
This is probably one of the most common fears that we women have and probably the easiest one to fix!
The easy answer?
Combine both your mouth and hands. One hand should be an extension of your mouth while the other hand should be stimulating and teasing other parts of his body.
But it’s not just knowing where to put your hands or remembering to keep everything very lubricated…
Confidence and desire for your man can be just as big of a part to oral sex as where you put your mouth.
Mistake #3 - Silence = So-So Sex
Be clear on this: If you don’t communicate with your man, your sex life will not change.
Let me say this again.
If you keep doing what you’re doing, you’ll keep getting what you’re getting!
And a sex life that doesn’t get better often gets worse.
That’s right. Your guy’s not a mind reader and neither are you. So how do really expect either one of you to really know what the other one wants or needs unless you talk about it?
You two may have gotten into the same old routine and we all know the word for that:
So you want to make the change right? But how do bring up the topic without shattering his fragile male ego or feeling totally insecure and exposed?
Sometimes it’s as easy as a simple game of show and tell.
Instead of trying to stop the action and telling him how you want him to touch you, you can take his hand, while kissing his ear, whispering, “You know what else feels good?” and guide his hand, using his fingers to pleasure yourself. Not only will you get what you want, but he’ll get doubly turned on by your confidence.
How These Discoveries Can Help You
I know it’s easy to look at some of these mistakes and think, “Great, that’s what I do! Now what?”
Here’s the great news. That is doesn’t have to be you.
You get rid of the old beliefs and have room in your head for this new happy, healthy sexuality. And you can actually become that incredible satisfied and confident woman you’ve always wanted to be!
Almost every woman I talked to could relate to feeling insecure in bed, having her thoughts get in the way of her pleasure or being unable to achieve satisfaction with her lover in some way.
A lot of these women didn’t even realize that they have created this little prisons in their minds, rigid designs on how sex is supposed to be in their heads and it was working against them when they tried to enjoy their sex lives.
Knowing I wasn’t alone only motivated me more. I wanted to try and figure out what makes us block our own ability to have a happy and healthy sex life.
What was it that held us back?
Why couldn't we communicate our needs?
And how do you break through those old ideas and brazenly indulge in a new and improved sex life?
Well, that’s what I spent the last few years figuring out and that’s what I want to share with you.
I started incorporating what I learned into my life and the results were nothing short of life changing. It was like going from living in black and white to living in Technicolor!
And there’s absolutely NO reason you can’t do the same thing.
Now your story may not be the exact same as mine, but I can guarantee you that if you’re reading this book, it’s not because you’re perfectly happy with your sex life.
You know, deep down, that there is something missing. That the day they handed out the “Mind blowing, abundantly confident, magically orgasmic, love Goddess” fairy dust, you over slept and missed out. The confidence of being a good lover isn’t there. The mind-blowing orgasm isn’t there either.
Have no fear. I am going to help you figure it all out.
I’m going to help you find a way to tear that old life to shreds and build a new, really FANTASTIC sex life.
And isn’t that what you really want?
Don’t you just want to be happy and confident in bed?
Don’t you all want to experience the most amazing, most fulfilling orgasms possible?
Don’t we all want to know that we turn our man’s world upside down?
Don’t we all want to think, “Yeah, my sex life ROCKS!”
Well, if you’re not feeling that way yet, you will.
I’ve spent years researching sex, interviewing men, women and experts and I’ve collected my own experience to come up with this candid, tell-all guide that will take you from so-so sex to so OH! sex in the fastest amount of time humanly possible.
The Top Secrets to Improve
Here are just a few of the amazing tips, techniques and secrets you’ll find inside:
I think we both know that a man fantasizes over a woman’s ability to please him orally. I’m very excited to share these with you. But not as excited as I know you man will be!
Get the Best Out Of Your Man in Bed!
Face it. It takes two. You can’t do everything. And you won’t have to! Here are some of my favorite tips and techniques that will guarantee a more passionate and more intimate relationship outside of the bedroom as well as in!
Special Solutions For
OK, we all know it’s not all hearts and flowers. Sometimes, there are a few bumps in the road. But with a little grace, humor and patience, you can get through any awkward situation!
I want to make a couple of things very clear: This is not some book of pornography. There are no pictures or illustrated positions or anything like that.
Nor is this a book that cast any judgments or opinions on your sex life.
My goal in writing this book was not to turn the woman reading this book into some imaginary porn star.
My goal is to dramatically improve the sex life of a woman who, like me, cares deeply about her man’s pleasure AS WELL AS her own.
In fact, you could say that I’m really writing this book for THE BOTH OF YOU. It takes two to tango, so I want you BOTH to benefit from all of my research.
I want you to have the type of exciting and lust-filled sex life that I have found. The type that also brings you more confidence and security in your relationship. It is just plain unfair that so many women can’t experience sexual pleasure in their relationships with men because they simply DON’T KNOW HOW.
So - Can you really learn all you need to know from a book?
I asked myself the same thing.
I must confess, I was concerned, sitting alone in my house, typing out all of this information, that although it worked for my friends… would it work for everyone else?
I mean, how was I to know for sure? What if it was just stuff everyone else magically knew already, or I just couldn’t explain it properly?
That is why I was so incredibly relieved when I gave the book to a bunch of my friends and started getting the emails of thanks back from them!
The responses I've gotten have been more than worth all the time and energy spent. Here are just a few responses women have had after reading my book, thanking me for sharing these “secrets”…
Sarah J., San Francisco, CA
Thank you so much for your new sex advice book. I couldn't stop reading the section about "him". You managed to strike a perfect balance between practical advice and humor that made some of these new techniques more approachable...although, I still don't know if I'll stop blushing long enough to try a couple of them. Thank you again for the great book!
Susan P., Aurora, IL.
Thank you so much for the new book. It has entirely re-energized our marriage. I read the section on Him twice in one day and my husband hasn't been the same since. I love the explicit instruction and the page turning humor!
Colleen T., Palo Alto, CA.
This is the book I didn't even know I'd been waiting for. After completing the lists as suggested in the second chapter, I was able, for the first time to uncover my long held belief that sex was "currency" to be used or taken away from a man to get what I wanted. I was surprised to realize that I had never really enjoyed sex just for myself, for my own pleasure. The straight talk on these pages combined with the author's gentle humor, and insightful instruction, offered me a way to begin again, and already I'm reaping the benefits...
Marianne S., UK
Morning Laura and Bliss in the Bedroom
Julie R., London, England
Thanks for the great new book! I learned so much! Until I read this book I truly believed that “Kegel exercises” were for people expecting babies! Your book keeps it real – makes serious matters light and easy to understand with great humor. Thanks !
Diane, New York
Cheryl R., Malibu CA
Let’s Wrap This Up…
It’s because of these responses that I’m so completely confident that I teach ANY woman how to live up to her most satisfying sexual potential AND give her man the most mind blowing sex of his life!
So completely confident that you have my 100% guarantee on it…
That’s right, not just better sex… but a better life and a better YOU.
Sound too good to be true?
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I wrote this book with a woman in mind that ALREADY in relationships, already in love, with the hopes that I could help you create a deeper, more passionate level to your relationship.
But if your Mr. Right is still out there somewhere, getting ready for you, then I hope that you are a woman who will use the information to keep this special guy happy and that this book will make the two of you happy forever.
Now, if your that rare breed of a woman who is already completely confident with all of her skills in the sack, has her man wrapped around her finger, NEVER has had a problem climaxing, doesn’t know what it’s like to feel self-conscious or insecure about her body, and has excellent communication with her partner in bed… Well, then I’d say don’t waste your time or money. This isn’t the book for you.
But if you have ever had any of these problems, (and chances are that if you’re still reading this, then you have!) Then this is the book that will change your life entirely.
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